so my partner recently emailed Fetlife support with questions about verification and their process... and a fetlife rep stated per email that "Your submitted profile verification pictures are securely stored where only members of the Fetlife team can access them if needed." which led to the next question.. for what reason would it be needed?! when my partner asked this question, support stopped replying.. when she replied from my email, they replied within the hour, when she told them who she is and repeated her question, fetlife support stopped replying.

so she went online to fetlife and john baku acknowledged her in a discussion.. she asked him the question "what reason would our pictures be needed in the future"... he ignored her question FOUR times and other support members felt this was a question that shoudnt be answered..

fetlife support has gotten very questionable regarding safety and privacy of their members!

our profiles have been shadowbanned regarding this conversation but if you are a fetlifer, you should know this!