So, just some quick context. My girlfirend and I have been together for 4 years and more actively exploring the whole D/s thing for about 2 years. It started as “games” we would play like going away for a short break and during that time we could allocate all attention to the dynamic where my girlfriend would be the “boss” for the whole holiday. She is naturally the Dominant and I the Submissive.
We have since evolved our practices over time and the dynamic has become the standard when it comes to sex and is a pretty big aspect of our relationship as a whole, which is amazing, we are both very happy with it and are really eager to keep exploring further.
However, obviously real life is not the same thing as a four-day hedonistic release on holiday. We are both busy people with everyday obligations and we have kind of hit a tipping point moment where we would like to maintain the D/s dynamic on a more continuous and regular basis but it can be difficult to navigate normal life and the dynamic at the same time.
So, I’m wondering how people who are more “full-time” go about their situation?
Do you have any tips or experiences that you think have been particularly useful for your situation?
I’m not expecting a silver bullet answer as I understand everybody's circumstances are different but I’m just curious to hear about any small habits or daily/weekly actions that can be taken by either of us to help keep the D/s idea present for us even with the everyday bustle of life. It’s not feasible for us to do full, intense scenes everyday, nor is it possible for me to become a 24/7 sub for her. But some small actions/requirements/routines etc. that could act as a quick “reminder” would be very helpful and appreciated.
Many thanks