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I'm somewhat new to BDSM, but I'm finally able to articulate what I like, specifically, the thought of being taken and generally speaking CNC. I'm not interested in submissiveness in the sense of being obedient and doing things to my partner. I also lean heavily on the bratty side. I'm actually often described as dominant by sexual partners because I'm fairly assertive, but I don't necessarily want to be in control.
I'm not familiar with all the terminology, but is there anything specific related to this? I don't want to give the wrong impression, I don't starfish and am a very active participant, I just don't want to obey and prefer to be taken. Anyone else feel this way? Any further advice as to how to articulate this?
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