Hi everyone, looking for some advice I guess. Don’t know if it’s just me or are others like this too. Me and my husband don’t really conform to labels per say, we like to switch it up and just enjoy exploring our new reignited sex lives. I love being the Dominant one and love to push his boundaries, he seems to enjoy it also. Of course we’ve had a few set backs and hard No’s but for the most part it always works out my way in the end. Example was pegging he was hard against it for a long time but over time he agreed to it and now he loves it and requests it regularly.
But my problem is that I’m never satisfied, I’m always looking for ways to push him out of his comfort zone. He’s happy to go along with most of my ideas but I still feel the need to push him further and further, is it wrong that I like hearing him call out his safe word? But then it can get awkward and we both are left unsatisfied. How do I control these feelings? How do I suppress the need to push further? Or is this common? Anyone else feel like this?