I’ve been finally opening up to my girlfriend about my interests in being a sub and she’s been very open and made me feel very comfortable to share with her. I love femdom humiliation and I think I lean toward being interested in a mommy domme type but a lot of my fantasies are less about a certain situation and more about invoking a kind of soft vulnerable feeling.

Any advice on how to try and explain what it is I’m looking for? It’s obviously tough since I can’t put it into words myself. I’m worried if I focus specifically on mommy domme fantasies she might misunderstand it as an incest fantasy or focus too heavily on that aspect.

If it helps I’m very into sph, cfnm, ass/body worship, verbal humiliation/teasing and soo much more.