My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for nearly 2 years and are in a D/s dynamic. We have been talking about the possibility of opening up to another playpartner in a top role.

I'm a sub and masochist so would be play on the service and pain side:)

We are thinking of a guy who have a role alongside my Dom, sort of a close friend with kinky benefits. I was wondering if anyone else has this sort of dynamic and how it works for you? We would be looking to play together all 3 rather than me having a second separate top.

I want to make sure I can be clear about what it is we are offering another top before approaching someone, and as I know a lot of 2sub/1top dynamics but no 1sub/2top ones, I wanted to get some outside opinions

Thank you!