Inexperienced GFD/switch seeking ideas, tips and tricks for domming my toy

Okay, so hi.

I have a sense of feeling this will be a sort of lengthy post, so THANK YOU SO MUCH if you read through all of it!

I just started seeing this amazing guy. I’m very much in love, and we have such a fun time playing. He’s rather inexperienced though, he’s been with three women and has never dabbled with BDSM before meeting me (which is completely fine, I’m having an amazing time introducing him to all this) I’ve always been submissive to the men I’ve been with, and am rather experienced in D/s dynamics, if I should say so myself. Just not like this haha.

We’d mostly been talking about a dynamic where he was the dominant one, and he even “claimed” me by saying I wasn’t allowed to cum unless he allowed me to. When we finally got around to actually playing, I noticed he very much had pleaser tendencies, I gave him a bunch of hickeys and even choked him a bit, but in the moment it was more like a power struggle kind of thing.

Ok, so, my friend has been teasing me a lot about the fact that I have switch tendencies, and so I decided fuck it. Me and the guy I’m seeing start getting a little hot and heavy while texting, so I ask if I can tell him a secret. I tell him that I also want to be in charge. That I want him to want me, to beg for me, to be a wellbehaved toy, while I just use him to get off, and this dude is IMMEDIATELY fucking down. I know he’s playing along and just trying to go with the flow, so some of it felt kind of forced, but he sent me the cutest fucking voice messages while begging me, telling me I was the best and that I was in charge.

And MA DUDES, let me tell you I was fucking HIGH on that power. He even ended up telling me that he wanted me to collar him. And like, I want that. God, I’d love to see him wearing a collar, wow.

Okay so BASICALLY what I need you peoples advice for, is, how the fuck do I go about this! I’m a bratty sub myself, well, normally at least, with this dude I’m 100% a service sub, so obviously we seem to be establishing a switch dynamic (dream come true) My problem is I’m quite shy. But I would love some advice for how to be an amazing gentle Domme to him? On my BDSM test it says I’m 99% brat tamer, so obviously I’d want to see if I can get out a brat in him, if he feels comfortable with that but other than that liiiikeeee.... I can feel my sub coming up in me, when I try to imagine scenarios, because basically I just want to tie his hands and then make him feel all kinds of nice. Obviously I want him to want me as well and to beg, because MY GOD THAT SHIT IS DELICIOUS. But like, please tell me all your favourite things that your gentle Dommes do? Preferably during playtime. What’s some fun, interesting ideas, funishments, rewards, challenges etc etc etc, for two absolute newbies?

I really don’t want to scare this guy away from BDSM, but I feel like he’s doing SUCH a good job, both while dominating me but also as my little subby toy, wow wow wow

I’d never be able to hit/slap/spank him or anything like that, I just.... yes, I’m a noob, help pls