I am planning a fairly involved BDSM/D&D experience as the birthday present for one of my partners (and potentially one of our friends/playmates). I wrote a post looking for additional playmates in r/BDSMpersonals and received some surprisingly wonderful feedback: fellow geeky kinksters asking how to do their own version or offering to help me brainstorm or even potentially co-writing some of the narrative. In fact, a lot more folks have reached out to help plan this zany thing than have asked to join as participants (although I guess that makes sense, since we're looking for a very specific kind of player.) I am really heartened by this whole experience!

I realized I should post this idea and experience-under-development over here to see if anyone has done anything similar, wanted to learn more about how I'm setting this up, and/or wanted to share any juicy ideas.

Yes, this will be part dungeons and dragons and part... dungeons. That's right: BD&DSM! I am DMing and Domming a tabletop kink fantasy campaign as a gift for my gorgeous, kinky 26/f partner and we have a few openings in the party. Yes, there will be actual kink scenes associated with the narrative.

I won't share anything publicly here about the specific subject matter or narrative of the mini-campaign itself (just in case she/they end up seeing this before our first session rolls around). Please PM me if you want to hear about that stuff-- I'm happy to share! Mechanics-wise, this is just a lightweight homebrew D&D build where a bunch of the action is determined through live action BDSM scenes. Instead of rolling dice (although there will be some dice rolling, for sure), someone will need to accomplish some kinky challenge in real time. The specific scenes are constrained by what I can facilitate with the tools, toys, and rigging setup I have here at home. There will also be a role-playing food component because I just know this is going to take so fucking long that I figured it would be better just to incorporate some kinky fantastical eating so we don't need to break out of character for lunch.

Please, bear in mind that someone reading this post may end up actually joining our party, so if there are potential spoilers for your idea or game mechanic, please PM me.

Thanks so much, folks.