Hello all,

I have been playing on-line and off-line with others for many years, but something that always seems a struggle for my partners is branching out into non-sexual areas of kink, with different 'behaviours', rules, or restrictions that apply to everyday life.

I enjoy these forms of control. However, in my experience Dominants often want regular reporting as a part of exercising their control (Email me each morning and I will tell you what to wear, Message me when you masturbate, etc. etc. etc.). However, this is not a desirable arrangement for me.

I enjoy instead the idea of set behaviours, rules, and restrictions which are self-policing - That I can complete without direct input from a dominant.

I have recently been trying to come up with a few items that are not sexual, or at least, not primarilly.

If you take a look at my post histor yyou will probably see that I am quite into a variety of self-destructive kinks. I was brainstorming a few ideas in my head for activities, routines, habits, and the like that would degrade my own 'quality of life'.

These ideas are probably a little masochistic to attempt all-day-everyday. I have the idea of maybe the community/master/myself selects a number at random each week?

A couple I came up with are:

• Before reading a book, watching a TV series, or film or similar (Videogame etc) the submissive is to look up the plot on Wikipedia or a similar site. The submissive should also check out the first few search results for 'XYZ Spoilers'
• The Submissive should watch television muted wherever possible, with or without subtitles.
• Messing with meals: Ideas such as letting food cool, blending a meal into a smoothie, or adding ingredients that will cause discomfort (Hot spices, sand, mud, water, alcohol)
• Forced up-take of a habit - Regular drinking, smoking etc
• Sleep Deprivation - This would be a killer for me
• Banning spell-check of any form. *Setting computer language/keyboard to a different setting/layout

I have plenty of others on my mind, but I would love to see what ideas come to the community's mind on this one.

Strange rituals, behaviours, etc are all welcome!

xxx