This is the topic base for the evening in (and the essence of) my KIK group.-

The complexity and intricacy of your perfect kink based relationship.The average attraction and chemistry factors, to vanilla lifestyle choices ( Do you prefer to live in a rural setting, small town, suburb or big city? How do you prefer your house to be kept? Slightly cluttered or immaculate? In your mind what house hold duties fall upon whom?) Then of course kink, orientation, and dynamic compatibility. What kinks can you not live without? Do you need someone that can show you kinks you have yet to discover? Can you be monogamous in these ventures or do you need someone that is ok with you having multiple loves? Do you crave a partner of each gender? Possibly two of one gender and one of the same? Considering all of this can you truthfully hang?

-The entire point of my group is to form a safe place, to discuss these points, with a diverse group of kinksters, while learning and growing from the way others do kink and also enjoy some flirty banter while trying to keep those who take it overboard to a minimum.