Wife is a Dom and I'm new...Advice please

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OK I will keep this short. My wife is a Dom, we have been together for four years. I am also a woman (lesbians). I ask her to hurt me She says she is not able to hurt someone she loves. First Question: Is this common? Also she has a thing about hurting men. I do not get jealous and I told her she can hurt a man if she would like seeming as she has not actively Dom'd since we have been together. I know it's not necessarily about sex but is sex often the reward for the pain? I'm sorry if this is vague I know people do not like to read novels. Thanks in advance if someone can provide insight.

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