Hello kinky people,

Some context and hopefully I gets some practical advice to help me plunge myself into my submissive journey!!

AMAB always was submissive as my male self. When I came out as a transwoman about two years ago I knew that I would be a submissive little girl and wanted it so badly. I took time when I came out as a transwoman to get comfortable with who I am and confident in how sexy and beautiful I am.

Now I find myself ready to explore and surrender myself to a dom that will help me explore and push my boundaries. I am finding myself to be very anxious and afraid to be quiet honest, I decided that won't have my first experience under any influence of alcohol or drugs cause I want to be aware, safe, and responsible but yhat also means there are nerves to get over.

Is there something I can do to take the edge off? I'm trying ro meet people for a coffee then maybe a casual date to see if we click and i feel more comfortable yet I'm finding that most (not all) men just want to jump into bed. Am I missing something? Was it like this for everyone?

Thanks in advance,

Lexi 🍑