Slight rant , also be good to just have a conversation about this.

As someone potentially looking for a dom, one thing that frustrates me is how much people seem to think that means they can just start dominanting straight away, no discussion or likes and limits etc.

I there is a difference between dominating someone in the bedroom after a discussion about what you both like, what your limits are etc and just kinda trying to control right from the off.

Personally I will not just 'submit' to anyone saying they are a Dom, trust does need to be there.

I've had a few experiences (mostly online) of people trying to jump straight into talking to me like I'm 'their' sub before we even had a conversation to see if it could work.

Anyone else faced this? I'm open to feedback if I'm maybe seeing this incorrectly.