I had approached my fiancé regarding female led relationships and milder forms of domination in the past, but she wasn’t into it so I dropped the idea.

However, since we got engaged she seems to be more into the idea. It started when we were intimate as usual and after I had eaten her out, she started counting down. It definitely puzzled me initially, till she reached 5 and told me. That if I don’t cum then I’ll not for the entire week.

I never managed to finish, but interestingly part of me didn’t want to finish at all. I enjoyed not finishing, and only having it be about her. I’m currently going to be chaste for a week, who knows what will happen after that. But I’m definitely very excited.

I’m glad she gave this a try. I’ve seen a change in myself since, feeling more subservient ever since. Neither one of us wants anything extreme and a mild occasional dominant period would be great.