Okay I’ll add I’ve done this before, but it was a friend. My approach worked , but it caused drama 🥵 I miss that connection, so trying to seek out another, I don’t want to jump in straight away. I want to talk for months before meeting. I want to know them inside out and for them to know me.

I’ve never tried approaching a random dom who I don’t know before. I’ve read his profile and like what I see/read and would like to start a conversation with him. What’s the best way to stand out? I don’t want to look desperate either.

(Yes I know on my profile I’m a domme, so I’m used to people approaching me and always rejecting what I read, but I don’t have any understanding on how to approach someone I don’t even know, from my own point of view)

Thank you 🖤