Hi dear kinksters of Reddit,

I have this fantasy of making my partner cum without physical stimulation. It's something I hardly see discussed about so I wonder if any of you have some ideas or advice for me.

For context: my biggest kink is orgasm controll. Edging, forced, denial... Basically all there is to it. And my partner is really into it. Lately we found out I can make her cum by light anal play only combined with a lot of dirty words. After a looong session I tried to push the limits and played with her clit as light as I could to see if she could come off it. Turns out she can. Now I'm wondering how far I can go with this.

I'd like to know if there is steps on how I could take away stimulation little by little in order to make her cum without stimulation at all. For example licking ears, although this would probably be further down the line.

So I'm seeking here: -anyone with experiences and advice for a chat -any ideas for these "steps" I could go through stimulating less and less -also I'm interested if I'm the only one that has this kind of kink/ fantasy. Would love if like-minded people leave a comment or message.

Thanks for reading this far XX Hades