I’m not sure what else to call it, but have any of you been in a position where the sub was driving a little too hard with the “instructions” she (or he) was given?

While it seems like it would be amazing, I recently had to pull back from a D/s dynamic because she was taking the guidance or instruction I was giving and taking it several levels beyond what I was expecting. She wanted so bad to make my fantasies come to reality, I wasn’t able to keep a handle on things. It made it really easy for me, but it was also like she didn’t actually need a dom, she just wanted to push her limits on everything.

Kind of a weird situation that I thought I’d ask the community about!