so i essentially want to be a childfree (no kiddos ever) stay at home wife and in my marriage would want to practice TPE. im wondering a couple things - do ppl like me exist? meaning, a childfree kinky tradwife? am i asking for too much? i know it may seem like im trolling but im not.. i just recently realized i can begin asking for what i really want in a relationship, and thats to be able to dedicate myself fully to my man. being a SAH wife would allow me to focus on my mental health and fitness so i can be the most present, regulated, and HAPPY partner possible. but its 2025, im not religious, im very progressive, and what im seeking seems to be rare..

secondly, for those who have experience being a CF SAH wife and doing TPE, im wondering what that dynamic looked like on a day to day basis?

for example, i wouldnt want my husband to micromanage me. i dont want to be told what to eat for breakfast. that will frustrate me. unless my partner orders for me at a cafe but id want them to order me what i enjoy anyways. and i dont want my daily outfits controlled by my partner (like 25% of the time is okay, but in TPE i would be open to 100% if thats rly important to my partner). i want to be able to continue doing my makeup how i like. if they dont like something then they can always make me change it, like my lipstick color for example. but i wouldnt want them to tell me how to do my face overall. i want to retain my agency with that. same with my hair and jewelry and nails. in sum, i want to retain agency over the smaller aspects of my life and personhood while submitting the macro decisions of my life over to my man. does this fit into the realm of TPE or would it be categorized as something different?

sorry for all the questions😭, and if you made it this far ty!