I've thought about getting a chastity cage for a long time. I look at a bunch, do a little research, then talk myself out of it. I'm a grow-er, not a show-er and I'm concerned about sizing. Although I use this excuse as a crutch often, it is a valid hesitation for me.

Also, I don't have the support from a partner. When times get tough to tell me they appreciate me or when I get reservations to tell me how hot I look. Someone to lightly humiliate me telling me how cute it looks all locked up while smirking and giggling while they kiss me.

Looking for advice or encouragement from any dommes. Maybe that'll help me get out of my own way 😮‍💨.