I'm 24M from Nebraska, bicurious, and looking to have my first time with a guy. However, finding a male dom in my area willing to tie a male sub up seems so hard. I've tried Feeld, Fetlife, and the bdsm subreddit but I've had no luck on any. I don't get any attention on Feeld and Reddit. On Fetlife, most bisexual men in my area are into vanilla sex or threesomes with married couples. Its hard to find someone that is willing to experiment with a single guy.

Every time I mention that I have a bondage kink, I always get ghosted. Those that are interested are either across the country, demanding dick pics (which I don't send out to someone I just fricking met), or busy with life. It's so frustrating because I've been having fantasies about being tied up by a guy for a while and I'm losing hope in finding someone that would make that happen. I'm just wondering where else could I look to find someone that shares my interest.