My wife and I have been together for 16 years and have always had some dom/sub tendencies in our dynamic but over the past year have been exploring and educating ourselves in the lifestyle over the past year.

My wife really relates and connects with DDLG and we have had a lot of fun making it our own, which has done wonders with our communication and intimacy. We had a collaring ceremony and I have gotten her some discrete collars that she loved but for one reason or another they have not been the perfect match for her.

For our first Valentine’s Day in the lifestyle, I want to custom order her a collar from a site I saw, Captive Collars. The biggest hurdle I am having is getting it sized right. She is a petite woman and the others didn’t fit her right. Any suggestions or advice on making the collar the perfect gift for her to match the love and responsibility I feel for being lucky enough to call her my own and her gifting me her submission and ownership?