My wife and I (35M/35F) are new to actually exploring all of this. We would love to have a couple of other couples that we could play some dirty game nights with, maybe some strip games and other games that maybe push the boundaries a bit. Since we’re so new idk if we’re ready to fully push into swinging, but definitely enjoy the exhibitionism. We routinely go to our local sex club to put on shows. It would be great if some of our actual friends were into kink, but after some careful probing it doesn’t seem that anyone is interested. We’ve been friends with the same groups of people since college, so they’re not going anywhere, but would like to add some new friends into our periodic hangouts that just might be willing to end the night on a bit sexier note. I’m not even sure where to start. We have two young kids so nights out require a babysitter, which makes it difficult to put any significant time in to socialize and get to know people (that’s why we usually go to the club - we get to flex our exhibitionist side without any fuss but it would nice to have it be a bit more personal too). It feels like everyone at the club is ready to skip straight into swinging, and we’re just not quite there yet. It would be nice to have someone we trust just get a little risqué with us so we can dabble our toes as beginners, not get poached by swingers on the hunt.

I keep reading about people having group fun here and my wife and I would love to have an escape like that! Invite us to a sex party so we can mingle and get naked with other people. If it leads anywhere, who knows? Any suggestions?