Hi! 29f subby here! I’m into so many different things and I always feel like I want to dabble in all of them everytime I’m sexual with my partner. I feel like planning out a scene with him would be a better idea but I feel like sticking to a ‘script’ would take away the fun. Not to mention, sitting there talking out what we’re going to do and how we’re going to do it beforehand, doesn’t that just kind of dull some of the suspense and excitement of the ‘scene’?

My Dom unfortunately is not very assertive when it comes to making plans to begin with so I feel like trying to do that with him would just be me telling him what I want. Which doesn’t sounds very fun considering I like to be overpowered and subservient.

Any advice on making a scene? How in depth do you go? Do you write it down or just talk about it?

Thanks in advance!