I have been in a relationship for 6 years and I get very excited when I have control in the relationship, that is, not only sexually, I also get excited when I set firm rules and decide something and he fulfills all my whims. . It turns me on to see him please me... I imagine that one of these days I take him by the hand, look him in the eyes with an intense look and tell him: "You are mine now, you will do what I tell you." I imagine that I make him feel so vulnerable, so dependent on me, that he cannot resist my desires... What do you recommend I do? because he is not submissive but he is very gentlemanly and always tries to please me in everything, they are just perversions that I have in my mind.