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Hey I need some help.
I have a kink I’ve been calling a trading kink but I don’t think the trade is what’s at the bottom of it and so I’m looking for a different name.
I really like giving sexual acts when there’s a favour or perk attached either transactionally or not.
E.g a plumber comes to fix your sink and instead of payment give oral. Or sleep with a restaurant/bar owner then the next time you go in your bill is covered. Have a massage and offer a different type of payment. Hook up with someone who works in a store you like and you get their staff discount.
I think there’s probably something attached to worth/value, there’s the fun of knowing your bills covered and knowing why especially if you’re there with vanilla friends and you don’t tell them why. There’s the submissive nature of giving someone exactly what they want in exchange for them providing some sort of care. There’s also a feeling of dominance in that the exchanges are at my say so and what I deem worthwhile.
Does anyone have any experience of this? It feels like there’s more going on than trading or transactional dating. Is there another way to describe this kink?
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