hiii i just wanted to hop on here and share something and hopefully get some advice!

i consider myself a sub into obedience & size kink which stems from the fact that im 5’9, and nearly 215 lbs. so considerably tall/large for a girl ig. im attracted to taller, stronger men but whenever i see bdsm/nsfw art of this dynamic, it’s almost always a small, petite girl with very slim features.

i’m sure it’s exaggerated for the sake of engagement and visuals but it makes me feel that im not fit for that dynamic if im not small. no hate to petite/short girls, you’re all stunning!! its just something that i’ve noticed has affected me over the years. i have a hard time finding men attractive if they aren’t taller and stronger than me bc i WANT to feel smaller 😭

also finding a man that fits the dominant style i enjoy AND is comfortable with my body the way it is seems like an olympic sport these days 🫠