I’ve been experimenting with a very niche and controversial kink for the past 6 months and tbh I don’t even want to share it here because people typically get very uncomfortable since the topic is still very taboo in society (no, it’s not related to physical pain). I met a sub a couple of months ago through that kink and although we only exchange virtually and don’t plan to meet irl, we are developing a connection.

Then just a month ago I met a new sub for irl play who I am really exited about and vibe with on multiple levels. If things get more serious with this new sub, I don’t know if I should share about the other sub and also this niche kink in general. It’s something that I might want to explore with the new sub in our own way but I feel a little uncomfortable about the idea of sharing it. I also don’t know how he’d react to knowing I have a devoted virtual sub… If it’s not directly relevant to my new dynamic, in what context would it be pertinent that that information needs to be shared?