My submissive has a cnc kink but it’s always something I’ve avoided in the relationship and others. I can understand the appeal but I consider myself a pleasure Dom and the idea of inflicting something that feels non consensual isn’t automatically a turn on.

It’s something I’m willing to explore I just wanted to make sure there was trust and time invested before I did. We are at the point and now I realize I don’t really know where to start.

All I can think of are things that feel like jumping into the deep end.

Her and I have talked about the fact that safe words and after care go both ways and that this might not be a smooth flawless scene like usual as well.

Does anyone have any tips for easing into CNC as a dominant top?