I’ll probably delete this soon since it gives away my location, but I’m an SFV resident and I want to start delving into kink stuff. Heterosexual male submissive-leaning switch, and wondering if there was a place in the Valley where I could safely explore and meet kink minded people. I know there are lots of kink opportunities in the city, but I’d rather not drive that far. Would this be something I’d need to check fetlife for (and actually be brave enough to make an account)? I’m not looking for anything sexual right off the bat, not trying to jump in and find a domme before looking into the community first. It doesn’t have to be massive or elaborate, just a munch would be exciting to check out.

Comments or DMs would be appreciated if you have any advice. Thanks!