I (f) and a sub in a monogamous spicy relationship with my boyfriend (and Dominant). We live in separate cities, though we usually see each other irl every two weeks or so. For a bit of context He is a Pleasure Dom / Caregiver type and I'm a good girl / pet / little type. We're both relatively new to the scene so we're learning a lot as we go along.

I enjoy rules, protocols, rewards etc and we'd like to try incorporating more of this into the dynamic but whenever I've done research on this I tend to only find reward systems / protocols that can be done together irl and don't really work remotely.

Does anyone have any ideas of these types of behaviours that can be done remotely? (via text, video call, audio message etc) Would love to hear of any successful protocols that others have incorporated into their distanced relationships. Thank you!