Title explains the gist, I’m trying to get into my local BDSM scene but I’m not sure how. I’ve joined FetLife and seen a lot of events around me that I’m just not sure how they work. I don’t know what munches are, and there’s a local dungeon that has events but I tried to message them and ask for details about etiquette and such, and I was met with a reply saying to just show up and find out. I’m not trying to get thrown to the wolves, but that’s sort of what it seems like I’ll have to do in my area. I’ve checked out events in some towns over, but there isn’t a lot accessible in this scene where I’m located. I’m exploring this independently and as a younger person, so any tips for safety or just general knowledge would be greatly appreciated