Hi, Complete newbie here. I’m uk based and will be attending Antichrist in London in a few weeks. I’ve looked at reviews and have met a few people that are marked as attending on Fetlife. Looks to be a fun event and enjoyed by performers and people I trust!

However, I’ve never been to a kink event. The most I’ve done is be designated photographer at Burlesque shows. Which is fun. Besides this, I have a whole other side to me which is a TV lingerie & latex lover. I have only ever played in private and only recently opened up to my wife about this, who is very supportive. She has given me consent to attend solo.

I have no friends in the scene I can tag along with. I have no interest in playing with others or being physical. Social interactions only, watching and enjoying the show is my aim. A wallflower type.

Of course I’m nervous. That’s natural. But what would be the best way to approach the event? What can I expect?

Shall I Arrive a little late? Immediately mingle? Make a beeline for the bar? I’m a natural introvert , but I’m unsure what confidence the anonymity will give me!