Does anyone here trust someone's verification to be a photo with the persons own username?

To me that seems very suspicious. It happens constantly too and when I make another suggestion for example like writing both of our usernames with the date. I also don't think it's a bad idea for their to be a note saying "after this date this photo is no longer valid for verification" so the photo can't be stolen to scam others.

When I ask (and of course say I'd do the same) I'm always met with hostility. "why are you insinuating I'm a scammer" or "a sub thinks they can tell me what to do you obviously aren't worth it" while usually asking for a tribute.

Which is why tributes have become a red flag for me. Not a single person asking for a tribute of hundreds that I have written, has been willing to properly verify.

I'm not sure if this has been a problems with Doms with their subs as well. Isn't common etiquite to want to make eachother feel safe and build trust?

I'm not calling Doms on here scammers. Just people who seem to manipulate or gaslight their way out of a compromise requiring verification. It just happens so often on here. Curious if it's happening to others as well?

Thank you for letting me rant. All the best ❤️