Heyo (i hope this is the right flair...)

So, esp today it came up that me and my gf both would be interested in cnc...

fine so far ig, but i know how much work it needs to be safe and work, so i wanted to ask for guides and experiences and advice for people starting with it.

Also, is there some timeline in which "until that don't do that" is a thing? we're very long distance, and while we are going well and fast, we only had two times already, is there a "minimum times of sex before you try cnc" thing? (as stupid as it sounds.,..)

the only thing i see that would happening in things cnc would be more "light" compared to what others do, like just when watching a movie or cuddling, who knows about the future but i'd want advice and experiences esp for those cases we'd most likely do.

I don't want to take any chances of hurting her or doing sth wrong (ofc there's never absolutely no chance of sth going wrong, but i want to eliminate the chances as much as possible...)