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hello !!!

i have been a lurker on here for very long but i am now peeping my head out.

so, my boyfriend is a very ā€œtraditionalā€ (he is a feminist and respects me) and dominant man. heā€™s the provider type. he does things in the realm of non sexual dynamics and doesnā€™t even know it- because he doesnā€™t know what bdsm is in its entirety. I have been casually into kink for awhile now, heavily into it for about three years.

he enjoys bondage, spanking, choking, power play (typical d/s shenanigans, aswell as the physical power of being stronger than i). he enjoys being called master and likes me being his pretty princess who doesnā€™t have to worry about anything.

but i can tell thereā€™s more to him, and i really want to help him unfurl this side of him and explore!- heā€™s curious and open, but i have NO idea how i would go about properly explaining and showing everything in its entirety for him to grasp it well. earlier this week i explained to him sub space vs dom space, the responsibility of being a dom, and we established safe words. i gave him a list of things iā€™d like to try down the line with no expected timeframe, and he was open to all.

my question is: how would i go about explaining everything to him about bdsm? i canā€™t really think of a good way thats all inclusive. any advice on how i should go about this?

thank you in advance. im sorry if this is a stupid question šŸ˜…šŸ˜…šŸ˜…

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