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hello !!!
i have been a lurker on here for very long but i am now peeping my head out.
so, my boyfriend is a very ātraditionalā (he is a feminist and respects me) and dominant man. heās the provider type. he does things in the realm of non sexual dynamics and doesnāt even know it- because he doesnāt know what bdsm is in its entirety. I have been casually into kink for awhile now, heavily into it for about three years.
he enjoys bondage, spanking, choking, power play (typical d/s shenanigans, aswell as the physical power of being stronger than i). he enjoys being called master and likes me being his pretty princess who doesnāt have to worry about anything.
but i can tell thereās more to him, and i really want to help him unfurl this side of him and explore!- heās curious and open, but i have NO idea how i would go about properly explaining and showing everything in its entirety for him to grasp it well. earlier this week i explained to him sub space vs dom space, the responsibility of being a dom, and we established safe words. i gave him a list of things iād like to try down the line with no expected timeframe, and he was open to all.
my question is: how would i go about explaining everything to him about bdsm? i canāt really think of a good way thats all inclusive. any advice on how i should go about this?
thank you in advance. im sorry if this is a stupid question š š š
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