Hey everyone,

I wanted to share something personal that’s been on my mind. I’m a submissive guy, and I’ve noticed this stereotype that submissive men are bad in bed. The reasoning seems to be that we’re not dominant and therefore less exciting sexually. To make it worse, there’s also this common assumption that submissive men tend to have smaller penises, which supposedly adds to the idea that we’re less satisfying partners.

Speaking for myself, I’ve definitely felt the pressure of these assumptions, and I wonder how much truth there actually is to them. So, I wanted to ask:

Do dominance and sexual skill go hand in hand, or is that just a societal narrative?

Does being submissive mean a man is inherently less engaging or satisfying in bed?

And let’s be honest—how much does penis size actually matter when it comes to sexual performance?

Personally, I think there’s way more to intimacy than these superficial judgments, but I can’t help feeling affected by them. Are these just stereotypes, or do they reflect real experiences people have had?

I’m really curious to hear other perspectives, especially from anyone who’s been with a submissive guy.