Hey everyone,

I hope this is the right place to ask. I’ve been interested in BDSM for a while now and am particularly drawn to the idea of a Dom/Sub dynamic, with me in the submissive role. However, I’m finding it challenging to meet a Dom online.

I want to approach this respectfully and authentically, without just barging into fetish forums and giving off the wrong impression. So, I’m looking for advice:

What’s the best way to introduce myself or make my interests known in online communities?

Are there specific platforms or forums that are better for finding like-minded people?

How can I avoid coming across as pushy or disrespectful while showing genuine interest?

I’d really appreciate any guidance or tips from people with experience in this dynamic. Thanks in advance!