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Hey.. wondering if anyone could help me. Ive always been kinky and find myself being somewhat of a switch in the bedroom.. I love to explore new kinks and have built up quite a list of things I enjoy.
However my partner of 4 years does not enjoy the things I do... he prefers more vanilla sex and doesn't feel comfortable doing the things I want to try. Ive not made this post to find ways to force him to like the things I do... just looking for other people who've had similar experiences and how you've communicated or overcome the issue, or how you've struck a balance to accommodate for both parties.
Recently ive had a bad experience with him sharing the things I like with his friends, where ive been humiliated for my kinks (not in a good way!). As a result ive tried to hide this side of me and be normal.
not a sympathy post... more a cry for help and advice!
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