I (20F) have been in a d/s relationship (I'm the sub) for around 4 months. It's been going well, I have no complaints or anything really. This is not my first d/s relationship, but it's for sure the healthiest one. I do fully recognize that I'm new to the community and I learn and grow every day :)

I'm just wondering for all my subs out there, do you actually experience some sort of subspace? And consequently, subdrop? I'm just curious to hear some experiences to kinda center/conceptualize what I feel, and how I can start to communicate my needs a little clearer.

My dom and I have what I'd consider great communication, I just don't get the feeling that he fully believes that subspace/subdrop is something I experience, and I'm struggling to talk about what I can't even explain lol. All comments appreciated <3