Im going to a fetish/kink party for the first time tonight with my partner. Im a bit nervous but also excited. We did lots of research into what the environment would be like and we're pretty confident it'll be an accepting/safe space. The event was even advertised to be for queer people.

Me and my partner are both trans men, and are thinking about trying to find someone to have a threesome with or maybe a couple to play with. Theres going to be a dungeon/play area at the party, with required fetish wear in the area.

Does anyone have any advice for first times going to events like this? First times having a threesome or swinging?

We've discussed safe sex practices we want in place ahead of time already, but beyond that we're a bit unsure if there's anything else we should be considering.