So, I have to say, I’ve never been a dom before, and I never thought I’d meet someone with whom I could live out that fantasy. We’ve been talking for a little over a month now, and everything has been perfect. Our sexual chemistry is just amazing. So far, everything has happened online, but we go on calls a lot, and I’ve never chatted with anyone as much as I have with her in such a short time.

Today, we talked about the worst thing someone has ever said to her. She couldn’t remember at first but then said that I’m the person who has called her the worst things. I then asked her if I’m also the one who has said the best things to her, and she confirmed that I am.

That made me very happy because I love dehumanizing her in a consensual and playful way, but at the same time, I also love building her up—encouraging her and telling her how funny, smart, beautiful, and amazing she is. We have so much in common outside of sex, and we just match so well. I hope I can call her my girlfriend or even my wife in the future.

This post might come across as funny, or it might not fit this subreddit at all, but I just needed to tell someone. I don’t think I’ve ever been happier with a person, nor have I ever received such a great compliment before.