Time and time again People seem to be confused when I express that I am selective and monogamous. Sure I do have some hot wife kink but I would never do that without a primary who is also extremely into it as well. I can absolutely have a long-term satisfying relationship without any other partners.

I've gotten on fet and attempting to sort by monogamous long-term relationship is nearly impossible. Am I the outlier here? How do you navigate being not into multiple partners but still able to play at parties with others while primary is there supervising?

I am a switch and getting on these kinky apps to find my new primary/boyfriend is crazy making!