hi, i’m 30 female and been in a long relationship, we’re very happy and i already discussed my feelings about being in a bdsm relationship.

we always had very open communication, so this is something he knows about but can’t give me.

we already tried bringing this to our dynamic but it’s not his vibe and it’s like i can’t see him like a dom? it just doesn’t work.

i tried very very hard being away for this want/need of mine but it’s like something it’s missing from my life?

obviously i can enjoy my life without a dom but sometimes i feel like i need someone to take the power of my life. i feel like my needs are getting bigger and bigger.

i’m looking for someone who’s already experienced to give their opinion 🤍 would be greatly appreciated