My bf and I have been together for a WHILE now. I love him very much, he’s helping out a lot while I’m in nursing school. We both have different kinks but also a lot of similar ones. For example we both like harem, but I would like multiple doms/bfs and he would like multiple subs/gfs. So we agree to disagree😂😂, but lately we don’t have sex often. I think we are both very sexually frustrated but I just lack the motivation to do anything. I communicate what I like to do and we bought toys and tools and stuff, but we never do anything. I want more of our kinks in our sex life, and he says we should wait until we have our own space. But even when it’s just us it’s very basic and vanilla sex. I really love him but I feel like these last couple of months we haven’t been meeting each other’s needs. But I’m also tired of talking about it and requesting things, cause there is always an excuse on why he can’t do something. Don’t get me wrong when he actually tries, it’s amazing I get chills just thinking ab it. I feel like he doesn’t put much effort into getting to know what I like and what I want. Most of the time when we do have sex other people are home so we have to be very quiet and I don’t get to cum, ok that’s cool with me him being satisfied leaves me very satisfied. Idk I feel like I’m rambling, any advice would help. Also forgot to add I’m very bratty and I feel like he doesn’t really like it, he think I’m trying to combat him all the time but it’s just like my brain just likes to get him a little mad. Idk if that plays a part tho🥲