i’ve been on the search for a dom for a while now and as soon as I think it’s going well—my boundary gets pushed and all men want is pictures of me.

now, i want to deny sending anything but that’s the only way to verify these days with online dynamics. it feels impossible to find someone that fits my needs, and is able to handle a normal conversation without getting kinky.

it’s gotten to the point where i’m debating if a bdsm relationship is what i’m actually looking for. maybe im too vanilla and lover-girl for this LMAOO. i just want a dom that will—for once— prioritize my pleasure over his. is this too much to ask for 😭😭😭

i could really use some advice or some words of encouragement.