Hey everyone,

I've been reflecting on my own D/s dynamics lately and thought it would be a great topic to discuss here. D/s can manifest so differently for each of us, and I’m curious to hear about your experiences!

What makes you feel dominant or submissive?
For me, I feel most dominant when I’m taking charge of a scene or guiding my partner through their limits. The connection and trust that comes with that power exchange is exhilarating. Especially with a partner who’s kinks line up perfectly with mine

What do you expect from your partner? I think expectations are crucial in D/s relationships. Personally, I expect clear communication and honesty from my partner. I want to know their limits and desires, just as I share mine. What about you? Do you have specific agreements or protocols that enhance your dynamic?

How often do you participate in a scene? For me, it varies. Some weeks we dive into scenes multiple times, while other weeks it’s more about the everyday power exchange through subtle gestures and words. I love the idea that D/s doesn’t always have to be a full scene; it can be woven into our daily lives.

I’d love to hear how D/s looks in your life! What are your rituals, expectations, and experiences? Let’s share and learn from one another!

Looking forward to your stories!