Ive been horny for a long time now and this want to get tied up by my girfriend really bad. But in recent times it just didnt work out. When we finally got to some sexy time i was getting really excited to get tied up in a long time, but she said she wants to be the bottom that time... so i took the hit and gave her a really fun time. As i said im just really frustrated.

Yesterday at lunch for example, we were texting about doing a scene, where im getting tied, she agreed that we can do it in the afternoon when she gets home. So i was really excited. I did everything to prepare. I laid all the fitting toys out, showered, shaved thoroughly, cleaned up the room, cooked us both food. When she got home she just told me, that she doesnt have the energy to do anything anymore. (thats the case every time when we talk about it beforehand)

I was and am really sad actually. But i just told her its completely fine, because i dont want to pressure her into doing anything she doesnt want to... After she went to bed, i stayed at my desk to cry. I dont know why its such a big deal to me.

Am i overreacting? Does anyone have any similar situation?

Sorry and thanks i guess