On the topic of meeting new people in bdsm, a lot of advice is often online forms and dating apps.

However I do feel like with enough patience a lot of “normal” people you meet on dates or parties can be converted into a bdsm lifestyle.

If 2 people like each other enough you can totally start introducing your partner to a bdsm lifestyle with patience.

A good example is most people have a bad time with anal when they just rush into it and try it once… but if your partner eased into it after a few months you could definitely start introducing it to a point where your partner likes it.

Any thoughts or experiences with similar situations like this?

Do you think this would also work for convincing someone to be more dominant or submissive in bed?