Hi I’m a smart cute newbie who’s had a few eye opening experiences in the past that I now want to explore more about. I’m in a thriving place like the Bay Area for some BDSM stuff but I’m having a hard time figuring out how to get started. I come from an extremely conservative family (i understand where you’re coming from I’m 30 and no it’s not as simple to just cut off ties and do as I like).. I’ve tried not looking to discuss that. Also cannot use fetlife or meet in public or attend classes etc Seeking advice for some other alternatives!

But I’m trying to meet someone who can correlate with me and explore more on the sides and have more fun!