Hi, A little bit of context - So, I am an owned F Sub 💙 but i am in LDR and I have been through a lot of trauma and abuse both through ex doms and family... So, it was very difficult for me to get out of that depressed mindset and I almost gave up on BDSM for few years...

I am not new to the lifestyle but I am new to what's it's like to be with a good dom (F). It feels so safe ☺️

Anyway, lately, I have been watching porn and trying to access and understand what I like and might not like... And make myself comfortable with my sexuality. Because before this all my exes just used me as a kink dispenser and never really asked me what I really liked... My abusive exs really messed me up.

Can you suggest some good websites for free Femdom or bdsm content? Or even if its M/f as long as it's sane... There are so many crazy stuff out there I rarely find anything good or sane.

I used to love reading tumblr blogs and talking to people on tumblr with the lifestyle but tumblr deactivated that. If u can suggest some blogging website?

If someone can provide some good websites where I can find sane anime porn? (Hentai)... I will appreciate that too.

Or even if its just written stuff... Or fiction.

What i usually find is really angry dommes going crazy mad at subs 98% of times and/or bad acting... The angry dommes act really triggers me even when the caption states otherwise.